Engaged Now What?
Congratulations! You're officially engaged and making your way towards marriage. This exciting phase is meant to be filled with joy, love, and anticipation, but it can also be a bit overwhelming as you start to plan your special day. Thats Why the We Do Collective is here! Here's your go to guide on what to do now that you are engaged.
1. Celebrate Together:
Celebrate your engagement as a couple! Whether it's a romantic dinner, a weekend getaway, or a simple night in, take the time to savor this special moment and relish the love that brought you to this point before you lean into step 2 :
2. Share the News:
The first thing you'll want to do is share the wonderful news with your loved ones. Your family and closest friends will be overjoyed to hear about your engagement. Consider hosting a small get-together, making phone calls, or sending out personalized announcements to celebrate together.
3. Insure Your Ring:
Your engagement ring is not just a symbol of your commitment, but also an investment. Make sure to get it insured to protect it against loss, damage, or theft.
4. Discuss Life Planning:
While things are feeling fabulous, this is the time to discuss your life goals with each other. Consider meeting with a marriage counselor, lawyer and financial advisor. They will give you insight on questions to ask each other that will ensure a solid foundation before the big day.
5. Set a Preliminary Budget:
Before you dive into wedding planning, have a preliminary discussion about your budget. Determine how much you're willing to spend, who will be contributing, and what your financial priorities are. This will provide a clear roadmap for your wedding planning.
6. Dream and Discuss:
Sit down together and envision your dream wedding. Discuss themes, locations, and any specific details that are important to both of you. This will help you align your visions and set the tone for your planning.
7. Start Your Guest List:
Create a preliminary guest list. This will give you an idea of the size of your wedding and help with budgeting and venue selection.
8. Download the We Do Collective Ultimate Wedding Planning Template!
I mean, you knew it was coming :-)
9. Create a Wedding Planning Contract with each other :
Because wedding planning all too often becomes a one person show. Craft a contract that outlines what you both will be responsible for during the planning process. This is also a great time to identify family members that are willing to assist with bringing this day to life.
10. Consider a Wedding Planner:
Decide if you want to hire a wedding planner or if you're comfortable with a DIY approach. A wedding planner can help streamline the process and reduce stress, but can be pricey. With our templates, you can bring on a Month of Coordinator once you identify your overall event budget.
11. Formalize Your Engagement:
If you haven't done so already, you may want to consider having an engagement party. This can be a great way to announce your engagement to a wider circle of friends and family.
12. Set Your Priorities:
It's important to define your wedding priorities. Determine what aspects are non-negotiable and what can be more flexible. This will help you make important decisions throughout the planning process.
13. Stay Organized:
Finally, get organized! Download The We Do Collective Ultimate Planning Templates to keep track of ideas, vendor contacts, and important dates.
Remember, wedding planning is a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time, enjoy each moment, and make it a journey that celebrates your love story. There's no rush to dive into the intricate details right away, so cherish this special time with your partner. Your wedding day will come together beautifully with careful planning and lots of love. Congratulations , and happy planning!